In enterprise lessons, we are always asked to "grab the opportunity" and most of the time " follow your heart ".
When i say yes, i feel greedy. like i'm already given a packet of sweets and when i saw the kid beside me being offered a packet of chocolate. I want the sweets, and the chocolates too.
All the other kids are telling me that the chocolate taste better than the sweet. And because of that, i feel that i will want to take the chocolate from the kid beside me.
Yes, and of course, the kid beside me will be my best friend. And my best friend will of course let me have the chocolate.
I will then give my best friend the packet of sweets i have. But we all know that the chocolate taste better than the sweet.
So are you being a good friend ? Being so selfish ?
But when i say no, i lose the opportunity.
both the sweets and chocolates are offered to me and my friend at the same point of time. If i were to grab the opportunity and say i want the chocolates before my best friend, it will be a different case already.
Because your friend hadn't receive the chocolate yet, and you're not TAKING IT AWAY from him/her. True?
I'm hesitating. Hesitating to decide whether Yes or No will be a better answer.
Sometimes it is hard to decide what's or who is more important.